Waiting
since Monday for the phone call that finally came Wednesday, I thought that
Thursday would be relaxation day before Friday’s appointment with the medical
oncologist. How wrong I can be!
I
could have gotten up at six a.m. but opted for a couple more hours of
sleep. Only after gazing at the clock,
which read 8:38 a.m., did I remember it was only an hour till I was to babysit
ten-month-old Josiah. That spurred me on
to shower before breakfast. Just after 9
a.m. I checked my cellphone. Three unexpected
calls already. After a flurry of return
calls, I learned at 9:20 a.m. that I needed to be in Tulsa at Hillcrest Medical
Center at 10:30 a.m. for an MRI.
Aagh!
My
personal policy for this breast cancer business is to always have a driver
because 1) I am a nervous driver in city traffic, 2) driving while distraught
is never a good idea, and 3) another set of ears to take in medical
information is always a good idea.
So when my daughter did not answer her phone, I called her husband. “Shawn,” I said, “I need to be at Hillcrest
at 10:30 for a mammogram.” There went
their breakfast date. Shucks. I’ve wanted to give them Thursday morning
dates this summer, and already I’m cancelling the first one.
Dana
and Josiah and I were on the road by 9:45.
Shawn needed to stay home to
finish up the last bit of bathroom demolition (they are putting in a new tub
due to black mold behind the tiles) and to greet Benjamin when the bus dropped
him off from summer school at 11:45. We figured
we would be back well before Joelle’s 2:45 pick up from Good Shepherd’s Child
Development Center. (She goes one day a
week.)
I
learned this morning that my daughter is very capable of driving over the speed
limit when necessary. By 10:40 a.m. I
was at Hillcrest’s registration desk.
This
was the first MRI I have ever had, so I was a little anxious. The technician was wonderful, and the thirty
minutes in the tube were not bad. I
could even hear the classic hymn selection that I requested coming through the
headphones whenever there was a break in the clinging and clanging of the
machine. Naturally, there was a surprise
blow-out of my vein in the first IV attempt before the MRI began. (Only after it happened did I remember that
my lovely protruding vein in my left hand has a history of blow-outs.) Fortunately, the right hand was
cooperative.
Afterward,
Dana and I ate at Panera’s, which is conveniently located near the hospital,
while Josiah enjoyed chewing on the highchair buckle more than eating his own food. And
then we drove home at a slower pace (I think) than on the way in.
So
tomorrow morning I will be on the road again, this time with friend Mona, for
my first appointment with the medical oncologist. Highway 75, here we come, but not post-haste
at eighty like this morning.
Im so glad you are asking for what you need (ie, someonecto go with you to all nreast cancer appts). (((Hugs))) and loving thouggts going to you as you make a less harried trip tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteAsking for help has never been my forte, but I guess I'm going to get a lot of practice now!
DeletePlease call me anytime to take you to Tulsa. I don't mind driving you anytime you need!
ReplyDeletePlease call me anytime to take you to Tulsa. I don't mind driving you anytime you need!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Kristy! I will add you to the short list:)
DeleteThanks so much, Kristy! I will add you to the short list:)
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